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The World's Biggest Love Problem
Our main problem with love is this: Lack of consciousness. Pure and
we know in our heart of hearts exactly what (and where) love really is, with our minds we have forgotten it.
As young children we used to know the bliss and ease of the
unconditional love that exists inside of us, but the stress and pain
of growing up in an unconscious world has made us wary, defensive
and fixated in ways that are damaging to ourselves and others.
Sorry, but You Have Been Infected ...
If your mind were a computer, I would submit to you that is has been
infected by a virus which distorts your way of thinking, believing,
deciding and looking at yourself and the world.
If you are like most people you are fixated on your needs and the
external world (particularly other people), and you have powerful
While there is absolutely nothing WRONG with this, this is a page
with important love tips, and I have to tell you that it DOES have
some very undesirable consequences in most areas of your life.
Including your love life.
Your Love Life Suffers
In short, the above mentioned things make something that is really
the most simple and natural thing in the world - love - seem
complicated and difficult. Those things cause feelings of
insecurity, inadequacy, jealousy, loneliness, sorrow and countless
other kinds of suffering to arise.
Love is also just about the most desirable and wonderful thing in
the world, and to have it linked to that kind of hardship and pain
seems almost perverse. Nevertheless this is the reality for most
people ... including you, most likely, or you wouldn't be reading
these love tips.
Break the Vicious Circle
And to make matters worse we pass this madness on to our children
... just like it was passed on to us. There is only one person who can break this vicious circle: You.
Happily, you absolutely can. You can raise your consciousness and
make changes for the better, and I'll help you do it. So, to get
lots of important love tips, just read on.
How to Move On
By becoming more conscious of the (absolute) truth about love, you
do your bit in helping all the children that you come into contact
with stay open and loving. You also help everyone else around you -
and yourself. Step by step you can fix your love problems and achieve your goal of
experiencing love.Love tips:
No matter what your love problem or love goal is, it will
help you to have these primary aims:
- to make yourself more conscious; to remember the real connections,
the main truths about love
- to de-program yourself and remove the virus; to de-learn any and
all misunderstandings about love
- to acquire some concrete, useful tips and tools, that you can use
in your everyday life
Some Good News about Love and Consciousness
Love in itself is NEVER a problem. Consciousness in itself NEVER is a problem.
Problems are caused by the ABSENCE of love, which in its turn is
caused by the ABSENCE of consciousness.Those
are some of the most important love tips I can give you. As, indeed
are these love tips:Love and consciousness contain the solution to anything. All your
problems with love have a simple solution. By pouring more love and
more consciousness into anything, you will make it simpler and
easier. If you take action, too, you will solve your problems.
Just by INCREASING your consciousness of love you will DIMINISH your
By USING your increased consciousness of love in practice you SOLVE
Love Tips about Your Love Goals and Love Problems
Love is not difficult, it is simple and easy. It is our most
fundamental nature. We do however, find love extremely difficult. In
fact it is one of the things we find most difficult. But do not
despair. There is hope! Some other powerful love tips concern goals and challenges. Below,
you will find some of the most basic and common goals, problems and
challenges most of us have in relation to love.
The primary goal is easy: To experience love; the more, the better!
As far as the problems are concerned, every single one of them is
based on a very typical and very common misunderstanding.
Each goal, problem or misunderstanding will be commented briefly
upon on this page, and then you can read more by clicking on the
associated link (which will take you to a new page, once the links
are up and running).
Here you can read how the dictionary defines love - and how I define
it. My definition of love is more comprehensive than the
dictionary's. Please note that the definition of love that I present here is
quite fundamental to understanding/seeing life and you as a
connected whole (a unity). In other words, important love tips are
presented in this 'mere' definition.
Here's the situation: You love someone (who loves you back - or
doesn't, it doesn't really matter). Because you love, or because you
are loved, you feel or think that the one(s) you love (and the
one(s) who love you) must give you something. That 'something' could
be anything, really: love, friendship, loyalty, help, attention, sex
Well, sorry to bust your bubble, but that won't work. Not for you,
and not for your loved one(s).
This is what you have forgotten (love tips): To distinguish between
love and needs; two things that are completely unrelated.
In the western world this is one of the most important and most
fundamental misunderstandings of love.
If you read nothing else on theses pages of love tips, please at
least read this:
Need Your Love
A page like this one would not be complete without a short
exposition of the nature of the mature love relationship - no it's
not about the participants' age, it's about couple love based on
Is that even possible? Oh, yes, and I can prove it. How? Because I'm
living it myself. Also, I know of others who, in varying degrees, do
the same. None of us are perfect in doing so, but we do our best,
and you'll get some powerful love tips by reading about it.
How do YOU do that, then? How do you live and love in the mature
Well, it can be said very briefly. In fact it can be said in two
words: 'I love'. Though, of course, in practice there appears to be
a lot more to it (even if there isn't). Read these love tips here: Couple
Here's the situation: You're living with your partner. Your love has
become 'everyday love' and in your relationship you have problems
with practical doings (living together, cleaning, bringing up
children, etc.) ... so whether you're actually married or not, you
need some love tips and some marriage problem advice.
This is what you have forgotten (love tips): There is a difference
between practical doings and love! These two things are widely
different. Nothing good comes of mixing them, and they should be
dealt with in completely different ways. Read more of these love
tips on the page Everyday
Love: Marriage Problem Advice
You're with a partner but you experience discomfort (unfulfilled
needs, pain, sorrow, etc.) in relation to love. Perhaps your partner
isn't giving you enough of something ... attention, help, sex or
something else ... to satisfy you. In any case love hurts. You feel
Here's what you've forgotten (love tips): The more unconditional
your love is, the better it feels. Your discomfort stems not from
love itself, but from your being closed off to love! Read more love
tips abut this on the page Love
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