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How to Be Yourself
and Find Authentic Happiness
(Ebook for Download)


• If you want to know how to be yourself & how to find happiness ...
• ... You've hit the jackpot!

• Soren, the Personal Development Guy ...
• ... - together with life itself - has written a mind blowing book!

• It's simple: Being authentically you = authentic happiness!
• But we've all learned (and now believe) stuff that's deeply flawed

• Learn how to move through your old habits and conditioning ...
• ... and be all you can be with this cool inspirational self help book


How to Be Yourself
and Find Authentic Happiness

So, you want to know how to be yourself and how to find happiness (authentic happiness!)? Great! One excellent way forward is to buy and read my book:

How to Be Yourself and Find Authentic Happiness ebook by soren lauritzen, the Personal Development Guy - frontpage How to Be Yourself and Find Authentic Happiness
- Notes from Life Itself to You and Notes from My Own Life, too
by Soren Lauritzen, the Personal Development Guy
from www.thePersonalDevelopmentGuy.com and
Athena Forlag (Publishing) - ISBN / EAN 978-87-7902-008-5



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A powerful mix of autobiographical, inspirational stories and the popular 'Notes from Life Itself to You'. Chuck full of ideas and inspiration for being yourself and authentic happiness tips. 105 easy to read pages, in an ebook for download, a PDF file formatted for reading on your computer. The price is $19. You get access to it immediately after you have paid, no waiting time.


Permission to Be Yourself? Granted!

If you are like most people you want to fit in. Be accepted.

However, if you are like every single other human being alive you are also unique. Totally unique. One of a kind.

This means that you have to pretend. Pretend to be like other people in order to be accepted. So, you try to please and appease other people - originally, probably your parents (and perhaps grandparents), then your teachers, then your lovers and bosses and colleagues and maybe even your friends.

We all try so hard to fit in. We have been taught that adapting and fitting into society and our various social groups is a good thing. Well, we are social animals, so at one level it is true. But it only truly works if we don't compromise who we are in order to fit in. And guess what? We all do.

We all compromise ourselves big time - just so we can appear to be like everybody else. When, in fact, we are unique.

'How to Be Yourself and Find Authentic Happiness' will show you why it is okay to be as you are and just be yourself.

This ebook for download will also show you several ways you can go about actually doing it - being yourself.

And, since the book switches between Soren, the Personal Development Guy's personal point of view and the point of view that life itself has on (roughly) the same subjects, you will surely find something you can relate to and use to create a better life for yourself - maybe even your best life ever!


The Pursuit of Happiness: A Lost Cause
- and a Better Alternative!

Are you pursuing something? Like maybe ...

... happiness
... love
... a sense of being whole
... inner peace
... freedom
... the sense of wonder you felt as a child

Well, then you really need to know this:

There is a difference between pursuing something truly important (like happiness, love, freedom, inner peace, etc.) because ...

.... you DON'T BELIEVE, TRUST AND FEEL YOU HAVE IT OR AT LEAST HAVE ACCESS TO IT ...

... and pursuing something truly important because YOU DO BELIEVE, TRUST AND FEEL YOU ALREADY HAVE IT OR AT LEAST HAVE ACCESS TO IT, and you like it, so you want more of it.

The difference is this: The first possibility doesn't work; the second one does.

The operative words in the sentences above are BELIEVE, TRUST and FEEL.

As long as you pursue it from a state of 'I don't have it', well, you won't get it.

It's pure logic, really. Happiness, love, inner peace, etc. are states of being. If you are pursuing a state of being from a point of lack and 'I don't have it', guess what? You don't have it. And consequently you don't experience it.

Well, How to Be Yourself and Find Authentic Happiness will teach you how to change that. It IS within your power to do so, and it is probably easier than you expect.

Interested? Then get it now!

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Permission to Have Fun and Enjoy Life? Granted!

Pretty much anything can be great fun - from working to relaxing to making love to playing with model trains or airplanes ... or you name it. Everything can be great fun - as long as you're not taking it too seriously.

This, in fact, is true of life in general and everything in it, including yourself. There is a very simple correlation:

If you take yourself too seriously, life ceases to be fun for you.

If you take other people - and their opinions - too seriously, life ceases to be fun for you.

If you take your work, or your relationships, or you-name-it - too seriously, life ceases to be fun for you.

In fact, if you take life itself too seriously, life ceases to be fun for you!

So don't, okay? Take things and people and yourself seriously, but PLEASE try and avoid taking all that TOO seriously! Because, really, it's not. Ease up a little.

You can be highly and deeply and totally responsible while having a wonderful time! How to Be Yourself and Find Authentic Happiness will teach you how.

Life can be great fun if only you don't take it too seriously.


How to Be Yourself with Other People

If you are lucky, you have someone in your life that you can be yourself with. If you are really lucky, you have a whole handful of people you can be (almost) authentically yourself with: Your lover. Your best friend. Maybe your second best friend, too. Maybe one of your parents, rarely both. Maybe one or two of your siblings, rarely more.

That's it. Between one and six people that you can be yourself with (or: almost yourself). In the whole wide world! And that's if you're lucky. Some people have no one. None. Zero. Not one person in the world they can be themselves with. In fact, that might be you.

Let's face it: That sucks!

Because of social conditioning, peer pressure, cultural influence, and just plain old habit you just don't feel you can be entirely, authentically yourself. Maybe you don't even know who and what the authentic 'you' is anymore.

Well, if you want, that's about to change. How to Be Yourself and Find Authentic Happiness will tell you how to find out who and what the authentic you is, and moreover, it will show you concrete ways on how to do it, how to be yourself. Both in general and in actual practice, using the life of Soren, the Personal Development Guy as an example.

So, if you are about ready to do something about that, just buy & read ...

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... which is not a problem oriented book, it is a solution oriented book. It will teach you how to deal with the challenge being authentically you.


Self Realization and Self Actualization: How to Be All You Can Be

This is both an inspirational book and a self help book in the best sense of the words. It is not just about happiness and how to be yourself, it is about how to be all you can be. This ebook for download is not full of exercises (though there are a few); rather it is full of ideas and examples that might just blow your mind!

As mentioned How to Be Yourself and Find Authentic Happiness contains a powerful mix between stories from the Personal Development Guy's own life and notes written from the perspective of life itself and aimed directly at you.

These extremely popular 'Notes from Life Itself to You' are clearly written from a place of love, nevertheless they give you the facts, the truth and the big picture with no holds barred - in a way that relates directly to you and your life.

Every second chapter in this particular book is a Note from Life Itself to You, and every other chapter is an example from the Personal Development Guy's own life.

You want to be all you can be ... but you're not. Not right now, anyway. This book will help you change that. If you let it, this book can change your life (but you have to let it).

So, if you are serious about your self improvement, your self realization, or self actualization, or whatever you want to call it, this might just be the perfect book for you. Also, obviously, you get to know Soren, the Personal Development Guy a lot better. :-)

Let's end this with an actual example from the book ...


An Example from 'How to Be Yourself
and Find Authentic Happiness':
The True Relationship Between Actions, Goals, Results & Who You Are

Here's a pretty long quote from the book, from a 'Note from Life Itself to You':

"You have been taught that in order to be happy you must set some good goals, take action and achieve results, haven't you? If you just set the right goals and achieve them, then you will be happy, right?

Wrong. Sorry.

What you have been told is all backwards. Life just doesn't work like that. YOU don't work like that.

I might tell you that you are already happy, which is the truth, the absolute truth, but since you are most likely not currently experiencing this happiness, you will have a hard time believing me.

So, instead I am going to go through the main elements that are important. To make it really clear, I am going to go through them twice, from two different ends of the spectrum. The first time I go through it, it might seem a bit confusing.

Let's start with the apparently all important actions.

Actions serve no other purpose than to express who and what you are.

Yes, it SEEMS that actions produce results, but it is actually the other way around!

The results you decide you want produce the actions you take.

And what determined the results you want in the first place?

Answer: Who you are.

So the correct correlation is this:

Who you are causes you to want to express that beingness in the form of certain results, the achievement of which requires you to perform certain actions.

Ergo: Does it matter what your actions are? Not really.

Does it matter which results you get? Not really.

So much for actions, success, money and material things! They're all just expressions of who you are.

Well, then, does it matter who you are? Not really.

Sorry. You were expecting a 'Yes' there, weren't you?

Well, the truth is that you exist and nothing more is needed to experience, which is pretty much what you are here for.

If it feels like your head is spinning, have no worries. We have only been through the sequence once. Let's go through the sequence again, from a different vantage point, and elaborate. (...)"


Interested? Please Buy 'How to Be Yourself and Find Authentic Happiness' Now

As mentioned you get a PDF file, an ebook for download with 105 easy to read pages chuck full of mind blowing concepts, words of encouragement, examples, happiness tips, and tips on how to be yourself at a price of $19. There is no reason to hesitate!

How to Be Yourself and Find Authentic Happiness ebook by soren lauritzen, the Personal Development Guy - frontpage How to Be Yourself and Find Authentic Happiness
- Notes from Life Itself to You and Notes from My Own Life, too
by Soren Lauritzen, the Personal Development Guy
from www.thePersonalDevelopmentGuy.com and
Athena Forlag (Publishing) -ISBN / EAN 978-87-7902-008-5



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• You might also like to read something related at the page Be Yourself, or at the page Self Concept, or at the page Empowerment Theory, or at the page How to Be Happy, or at the page Philosophy: Happiness

• If you are interested in freeing yourself and creating a better life for yourself by letting go of unwanted emotions, needs and limitations, you may want to buy and read the ebook that Soren, the Personal development Guy, has written about that: Finding Inner Peace by Letting Go - 10 Steps to Happiness, Freedom, Love & More Using the Let Go Method. It is 75 easy to read pages, in a PDF ebook for download - and you can get it immediately after you have paid. It costs $19. You can buy this excellent self help ebook here:

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External links to awesome websites / really cool websites with pages relevant to this self improvement article / personal development page:

The concept of happiness as described on wikipedia.org: happiness

Personal identity (in philosophy) as described on wikipedia.org: personal identity

Happiness as described on encyclopedia.com: happiness

Personal identity as described on encyclopedia.com: identity

Happiness as described on reference.com: happiness

Identity as described on reference.com: identity in social science

A pretty superficial but easy to read description of happiness at wisegeek.com: happiness

The term 'you' defined with a small smile at Urbandictionary.com: you

The term 'happiness' defined with a small smile at Urbandictionary.com: happiness

Provocative and annoying article about "you" at Uncyclopedia - the content free encyclopedia: Uncyclopedia: You

Amusing and silly description of happiness and the pursuit of happiness Uncyclopedia: Happiness



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